A letter to someone I judged at first.
Dear The Fourth,
Who actually hits on someone at a party that is with someone else? Not just with, but actively sitting there on the couch cuddling with them? Every time he got up to go to the restroom you were there hitting on me. I was a bit shocked, I have to admit.
The second party we were at I was alone though, and again, you hit on me pretty hard. It's very flattering, don't get me wrong, but you're a little intense and to be honest, it kind of freaks me out. I tried my hand at flirting back, but got scared and ducked out of it. I hope that doesn't give you the wrong idea, I haven't ruled out the idea entirely... I'm toying it with it, as I'm single and you seem interested. You're attractive, but the jury is still out on whether you're a nice guy or a weird-o. The roommate seems to think you're alright, as does your neighbor (my buddy) so maybe...
The roommate thinks I should give it a shot because the intensity would challenge me. I'm always the intense one, so it's scary for me. :P
Who knows, maybe next party I'll manage to flirt back?
We'll see.
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hmmm.... normally I'd say "RUN RUN RUN!!" but if he has REFERENCES...
ReplyDeleteNah, he actively hit on you while you were clearly with someone else. That screams "ew" to me...
Hmmmn, why not? Two intense people together - at least you'll understand each other.....
ReplyDeleteI don't know. Was he drunk at the first party? I am trying to think of a reason to give him a PASS on the poor behavior on that first meeting. It is just poor taste to hit on someone who is clearly with someone else. I am holding out on giving an opinion on this one.
ReplyDeleteGo for it! Maybe he was told that you aren't exclusive before hand, maybe he's a normal completely oblivious male and didn't think about it, maybe he really really likes you so he's willing to throw away manners in favor of potential love, maybe he thinks he's a better man and that you deserve better. You'll never know until you find out and until your exclusive it's healthy to play the field a bit. Love you!
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