7.31.2015

Confessions of a New Homeowner Part 2: Updates on The New House

You may have caught my first round of new homeowner confessions when I was freaking out.  That was exactly two weeks ago after just getting the keys to my new home and being able access it for the first time.  A TON has happened since then, and I've had a LOT of help.

Confessions of a New Homeowner Part 2: Updates on The New House

I confess... The previous homeowners left the place in quite a state.  That's one of the reasons I was freaking out when I first got the keys and was able to get in there.  There were giant holes in the walls, the place smelled like sour meat, they didn't leave the portable A/C they were required to leave, the door was hanging wide open (they didn't lock it at all), and there was a giant pile of crap they'd left me in the back yard. They'd also almost completely killed the grass in the back yard between the time I looked at the home and the time I gained access. I pretty much hate them, and each project has me cursing their names.  What jerks.

I confess... I've grown too weary of chasing down my realtor to see about the A/C unit.  I'm just giving up I think... Though part of me feels like I should call the cops or something, since they were required to leave it and the fact that they took it should count as theft.  I'll admit that I don't really need it now (I've forked over the money to buy an A/C for myself because it's hot and I couldn't wait!) but that I'd like to get them simply out of principle.

Hampton Bay 1-Light Outdoor Black Wall Light

I confess... One of the first things I did at my new place was start thinking about all the updates I had to do, and one of the first ones I did was porch lights.  They had an old ugly motion detector light on the front, and a hole with wires hanging out the back... These little lights I got at Home Depot for about $16 each, so I felt like it wasn't a terrible investment-and they add a lot of character.  So the Sunday after I gained access to the house my dad stopped by on his way out of town (for work) and helped me install a couple new lights, and also my new A/C.  He also helped me fix the front door so it would lock properly.  My dad is so great.

I confess... He's working six-twelves right now, but he said as soon as he's done with this job he'll come down and help me install some new flooring.  They self-installed some laminate in the kitchen and did a terrible job-there are giant gaps in between boards, the boards aren't secured so they slide around, and they never water-proofed or protected the flooring against water damage.

Shayla sanding down spackle while the dogs keep her company.

I confess... My mom and my sister have been amazing.  Not only did they rush down when I was freaking out to make me feel better, but they then came down again the following Sunday night to help me start making the place liveable.  They slept on the floor of my new house with me for two nights while we painted, primed, scraped, patched, and fixed the place up.  Plus we had puppy helpers. So cute!

I confess... I didn't get enough before shots, but I did get a few.  I wish I'd gotten more and taken them with my good camera so you could see just how bad some things were.  These people didn't really take care of the place at all.  It looks like they tried to do some fixes on their own, but every fix they did was done really poorly.

Living Room Before

I confess... It's amazing how much a coat of paint can change a room.  This house is tiny with a cottage/bungalow feel, but I don't know how they survived with ugly stark white walls over their ten years there.  It had no character.  Maybe they were just cheap-I had no idea how much paint cost-it was so expensive!  Above is a few shots of the living room.

Living Room After - Sherwin Williams Sea Salt on the walls with Snowbound on the trim.

I confess... I went with Sherwin Williams Sea Salt for the walls on the living room, and the two-tone look with the molding in Sherwin Williams Snowbound.  I'm in love with it.  It makes the room feel ENTIRELY different.

I confess... It was SO difficult to paint over where the stairs are.  In the middle of painting we called my grandfather to ask if he had a tall ladder we could borrow and he rushed over with one so we could reach some awkward spaces.  It still didn't help with some of the spaces, so he built some makeshift scaffolding over the space so we could stand on it or put things on it.

Paint spill-oops!

I confess... The scaffolding had about a foot on one side where it rested, but only about two inches on the other... When that shifts and you have a giant bucket of paint sitting on the wood-bad things happen.  My sister accidentally dropped an entire bowl of paint down my stairs!

I confess... The painting of my stair carpet resulted in a lot of tears.  All three of us were going on very little sleep, so my sister was bawling because she felt bad and I was bawling because I couldn't afford to replace the carpet that was now painted white.  Luckily my mom kept a cool head and after an hour of scrubbing with hot soapy water and running the carpet cleaner over it, we managed to get most of it out.

Painting the kitchen with Behr Planetary Silver and stripping the old paint off cupboard hinges.

I confess... For the kitchen I chose Behr Planetary Silver.  I don't know what inspired me to go with a grey, but I sure love the two-toned look with the silver-grey and the Snowbound trim.  I still have a lot to paint in the kitchen.  I also bought some pretty grey and white chevron style non-slip cupboard liners that I'll be able to put in when I finish all the painting.

I confess... The kitchen cabinets are kind of weird.  Over the sink there are the original built-in solid wood cabinets that probably came with the house in the 1950s, but somewhere along the line they've replaced the cabinets along the wall and under the sink with a cheaper version.  The replaced cabinets all have newer hinges on them, but the original ones had the original hinges with about 60 years worth of paint over it... It took two whole days to get the hinges off so we could paint.  They'd been painted over so many times that I had to buy a paint stripper, apply it, let it sit 15 minutes before scraping whatever I could get off, and then repeat-for two days.  I did finally get them off, and am currently in the process of painting them and getting new hardware for them.

Patching a hole in the kitchen ceiling.

I confess... In the kitchen there was a random hole in the ceiling that the previous owners had literally stuffed with plastic grocery sacks. Just, what?  What is wrong with these people?  I pulled the grocery sacks out and a bunch of heat rushed down.  We imagine that they must have used the hole to put in insulation in part of the attic space, but then been way too lazy to fix it-they just tried to plug it up so that the heat stayed in.  Above you'll see how they had it on the left, and on the right how I started fixing it.

I confess... I'm learning how to patch walls like a pro.  We bought mesh panels and mesh tape, and a giant tub of Joint Compound and I have patched so many holes and cracks in the walls/ceilings that it's crazy.  But it makes such a difference!

Fixing the hole between the door frame and the wall with Joint Compound.

I confess... One thing I was aware of from the moment I put in the offer was the jagged hole between the wall and door frame in the bedroom.  This door separates the bedroom from the downstairs bathroom (worst bathroom ever) and it appears as if they'd cut their own door frame.  It was all jagged and wavy, and they'd just left the whole there without doing anything to patch it.  So my momma helped me nail in a new board that was missing from the frame, and we broke out the joint compound and we started patching the door up.  It's dried kind of cracking, so I think I need to sand it down and put another layer on it.

Scraping paint off of drywall.

I confess... The bedroom walls were bad too.  There was paint peeling everywhere (it appears they'd painted directly over drywall without primer or anything) and the molding along the one wall was damaged.  I pried up the molding and voila, found a small piece of mold.  We cut the moldy section of the wall out and tossed the old molding there.  We also spent hours hand scraping the peeling paint off the walls.

Bedroom painted with Sherwin Williams Refresh on the walls and Snowbound for the trim.

I confess... My mom and sister seriously are the best family anyone could ask for. They both had Monday off, and even though I had to work they went to my house and painted my bedroom!  I came home to an almost complete painting job that has saved me SO much time!  

I confess... I originally bought Sherwin Williams Refresh to use to update the accents in the kitchen (which are already a similar-but darker-color) and ended up hating it in the Kitchen.  So I was glad that when it was done in the bedroom I LOVED it there. I'd hate to waste paint or be stuck with a color I hate.  It looked great with the Snowbound trim/accents as well.

Shayla painting the downstairs bathroom white, and getting covered in paint.

I confess... In an effort to make me hate my downstairs bathroom less, (it looked like this originally) my mom and sister helped me paint it mostly white.  It's going to need an entire overhall at some point... It's the most bizarre thing.  The main drain is up in the wall, so they've installed a pump in the floor and have pipes and wires running everywhere.  I think that it's because of all the pipes and wires and the pump that they built the weird platforms and fake walls to hide it... Except they didn't do a great job at that either-they made sliding cupboard doors that are uneven and terrible, and the platforms kind of slide around.  They didn't even have the shower secured into the wall, it can move around... But making it white helps a little.

I confess... My baby sister is pretty much the smaller, blonder, more adorable version of me.  Isn't she cute?

I confess... I am becoming extremely handy.  I'm learning how to do so many things on my own, including patching walls and hooking things up.  I'm also going to make an attempt to change my headlight on my car this weekend (I'm too house poor to take my car in lol) and I need to switch out a few electrical outlets that my dad explained how to do.  I am woman, hear me roar.

I confess... I still have SO much more to do before the house is actually liveable... I mean I'm currently bunkered down in the one room of the house that's mostly done (the living room) with my couches, TV, boxes/bags piled everywhere, and my mattress on the floor.  It's crazy! Also, about 90% of everything I own is locked in the garage currently-it's been crazy.

Here is my upcoming home improvement to-do list, at least those things I know of off the top of my head so far.
  • Finish painting cupboards and around them.
  • Hang cupboard doors.
  • Place liner in cupboards.
Kitchen Cabinets Before
  • Finish patching the holes and painting the walls in the kitchen.
  • Figure out the kitchen table situation-my table is too big for the kitchen. lol
  • Re-caulk around the sink.
  • Figure out if I want to keep the accent color in the kitchen.
    • If yes, touch it up/repaint it.
    • If no, figure out what color to paint it instead.
Kitchen Accent Color Before
  • Backsplash behind the stove-my mom pulled down their ghetto tin foil that they'd pasted up against the wall and painted instead.
Kitchen Backsplash Before

  • Repaint the monstrosity that is the yellow bathroom with red accents... 
  • Clean up their caulking mess in the said bathroom.
  • Replace the faucet because it doesn't actually reach the sink properly.
  • Eventually I also need to figure out why the jets in the bathtub don't work...
Ugly Yellow Bathroom Before
  • Finish painting my bedroom.
  • Spray for bugs-there are SO many spiders!
  • Figure out how to hook up the washer and dryer properly.
  • Unpack at least my clothing.
  • Figure out what to do with the closet (which looks like this).
  • Figure out what to do with the ugly downstairs bathroom.
  • Replace the counters because they are cracked and broken.
  • Paint the hallway.
  • Find curtains for the living room and the bedroom.
  • Try and bring my poor yard back to life.
Whew, I've got a lot of work cut out for me.

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7.30.2015

Giveaway: Enter to Win a Free Pair of Firmoo Glasses!

Giveaway: Enter to Win a Free Pair of Firmoo Glasses!

It's no secret that I love my Firmoo glasses.  I've shared many a selfie sporting my new ones, both when talking about them and when just being out there living my life.  They're my favorite, and I get commented on them daily.  Just look:

Firmoo Glasses and Wine   Firmoo Glasses on a new homeowner

Haven't heard of Firmoo? Firmoo is an online company that sells glasses, both prescription and not, and saves you money since they don't have to pay for a brick and mortar store.  Since it's all online, those of us buying glasses reap the benefits of the savings.  They have tons of options to choose from, with new collections available all the time, and they ship quick and easy.  I've also had nothing but good experiences ordering from them and working with their customer service team.


Firmoo is giving one lucky winner their choice of glasses from their collection for bloggers.  Giveaway is open to the US only, and includes the frames and standard 1.50 index single vision lenses. Upgraded lenses and add-ons will be charged additional fees.  Entering below agrees to all the terms and conditions in the Rafflecopter widget.

7.29.2015

Top 20 Most Handsome Male Celebrities: 2015 Edition


Dylan Bruce
20 | DYLAN BRUCE | ORPHAN BLACK, FLOWERS IN THE ATTIC, ARROW | PHOTO SOURCE
Kit Harington
19 | KIT HARINGTON | GAME OF THRONES, POMPEII, HOW TO TRAIN YOUR DRAGON 2 | PHOTO SOURCE
Kevin McKidd
18 | KEVIN MCKIDD | GREY'S ANATOMY, ROME, TRAINSPOTTING, BRAVE | PHOTO SOURCE
Jensen Ackles
17 | JENSEN ACKLES | SUPERNATURAL, MY BLOODY VALENTINE, SMALLVILLE | PHOTO SOURCE
Nick Wechsler
16 | NICK WECHSLER | REVENGE, ROSWELL, IT'S ALWAYS SUNNY IN PHILADELPHIA | PHOTO SOURCE
Aldis Hodge
15 | ALDIS HODGE | LEVERAGE, FRIDAY NIGHT LIGHTS, A GOOD DAY TO DIE HARD | PHOTO SOURCE
Paul Rudd
14 | PAUL RUDD | ANT-MAN, PARKS AND RECREATION, OUR IDIOT BROTHER | PHOTO SOURCE
Barry Sloan
13 | BARRY SLOAN | REVENGE, NOAH, HOLLYOAKS, THE WHISPERS, HOLBY CITY | PHOTO SOURCE
Colin O'Donoghue
12 | COLIN O'DONOGHUE | ONCE UPON A TIME, THE RITE, STORAGE 24, THE CLINIC | PHOTO SOURCE
Henry Cavill
11 | HENRY CAVILL | MAN OF STEEL, THE TUDORS, IMMORTALS, STARDUST | PHOTO SOURCE
Jason Bateman
10 | JASON BATEMAN | ARRESTED DEVELOPMENT, THIS IS WHERE I LEAVE YOU | PHOTO SOURCE
Jason George
09 | JASON GEORGE | GREY'S ANATOMY, MISTRESSES, WITCHES OF EAST END | PHOTO SOURCE
Matthew Lewis
08 | MATTHEW LEWIS | HARRY POTTER, BLUESTONE 42, THE SYNDICATE, THE RISE | PHOTO SOURCE
Ian Somerhalder
 07 | IAN SOMERHALDER | THE VAMPIRE DIARIES, LOST, PULSE, SMALLVILLE | PHOTO SOURCE
Jesse Williams
06 | JESSE WILLIAMS | GREY'S ANATOMY, CABIN IN THE WOODS, BEYOND THE BREAK | PHOTO SOURCE
Charlie Hunnam
05 | CHARLIE HUNNAM | SONS OF ANARCHY, PACIFIC RIM, NICHOLAS NICKELBY | PHOTO SOURCE
Joseph Gordon-Leavitt
04 | JOSEPH GORDON-LEAVITT | INCEPTION, LOOPER, 3RD ROCK FROM THE SUN | PHOTO SOURCE
Nikolaj Coster-Waldau
03 | NIKOLAJ COSTER-WALDAU | GAME OF THRONES, MAMMA, THE OTHER WOMAN | PHOTO SOURCE
Adam Levine
02 | ADAM LEVINE | MAROON 5, THE VOICE, AMERICAN HORROR STORY | PHOTO SOURCE
Chris Pratt
01 | CHRIS PRATT | GUARDIANS OF THE GALAXY, JURASSIC WORLD, PARKS & REC | PHOTO SOURCE

Who do you think the most handsome man in Hollywood is?
You can tell my tastes change each year with what I'm currently watching/obsessed with. 

See these previous Top 20 lists:


7.28.2015

Giveaway: Enter to win a $65 Gift Card to Ann Taylor Loft


I was able to join up with a few other bloggers over at Keeping Up with Ashley and Cody this month for a fun Community Post.  We each picked our favorite outfits from Ann Taylor Loft, and then offered up a giveaway.  The gift card will be $65.

If you'd like to see the favorite outfits-go HERE! (You can enter the giveaway there also, or you can enter below!)



7.26.2015

A Scrub is a Guy That Can't Get No Love From Me

Why "No Scrubs" from TLC Is about more than just money...

We were talking about older music the other day and suddenly I had the urge to listen to some TLC.  I mean, it's been years-but back in the day?  They were the coolest.  Can you believe it's been 16 years since this album was released.  We're old guys.

So I listened to No Scrubs while packing.  I'm sure I replayed it like 50 times and sang along with all the spirit of my Junior High self who used to belt it in my bedroom all those years ago.  It was nostalgic, and so much fun.

Then I started thinking about the song-and how so many guys today would (well and probably did back then) accuse the band and the girls who sympathize with the song of being "gold diggers."  I'm sure I even have a few guy friends I'd expect to hear this from.  But that's not at all what it's about.

Personally, I feel like it's about not settling for less than what you're worth.  I've done it.  I've dated a lot of guys who couldn't hold down a job, had no direction, had no car, etc.  For some people, those are temporary states of being-they're jobless while they actively look for a job, or carless until they've worked at their job long enough to get a loan, etc.  However for a good majority of these guys-that's just the way they are and they have no plans of changing.  Don't get me wrong, I know there are girls like that too-and if you date girls I'm sure you have run into your fair share of them.

So, after years and years of dating guys who can't take care of themselves (and being a "giver" I did a lot of taking care of these guys), eventually-at least hopefully eventually-you can't do it anymore.  You start to see them for what they are-takers and users-and you have to remind yourself to not fall for it anymore.  Eventually the "no scrubs" motto comes into play, and after years of mistakes and finally learning from them-this song takes on a new level of accuracy.

So no, I don't want no scrubs (ouch, I know, the grammar hurts).  I want a guy who can take care of himself. He doesn't have to be rich by any means.  He doesn't have to buy me things or take care of me either, but he has to be able to take care of himself.  He must have a job and a car (in this state you need a car to get around, our public transport is not the greatest-this is different in places like NYC where you really don't need a car), and he must be a responsible contributing member of society.  There's just no way around it.

I no longer have the energy to carry someone who refuses to carry themselves.  I hope my friends and readers have been able to rise above this too.  If you're dating someone who relies on you for everything and doesn't contribute-get out.  Hold yourself higher, because you deserve someone who loves you and wants to be with you, not who is with you because you'll pay for them or do everything for them.  You're better than that.


This week's song: 
No Scrubs
by TLC 
+ a bonus cover by Bastille


And this version... Which shouldn't work but it does... Oh it works so well. I LOVE it.


A scrub is a guy who thinks he's fly and is also known as a buster
Always talking about what he wants and just sits on his broke ass

So no, I don't want your number
No, I don't wanna give you mine 
And no, I don't wanna meet you nowhere
No, I don't want none of your time

No, I don't want no scrub, a scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me
Hanging out the passenger side of his best friend's ride, trying to holler at me
No, I don't want no scrub, a scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me
Hanging out the passenger side of his best friend's ride, trying to holler at me

There's a scrub checking me but his game is kind of weak
And I know that he cannot approach me
'Cause I'm looking like class and he's looking like trash
Can't get with a deadbeat ass

So no, I don't want your number
No, I don't wanna give you mine 
And no, I don't wanna meet you nowhere
No, I don't want none of your time

No, I don't want no scrub, a scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me
Hanging out the passenger side of his best friend's ride, trying to holler at me
No, I don't want no scrub, a scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me
Hanging out the passenger side of his best friend's ride, trying to holler at me

You don't have a car and you're walking
Oh yes son, I'm talking to you
You live at home with your mamma
Oh yes son, I'm talking to you
If you have a shorty that you don't show love
Oh yes son, I'm talking to you
Wanna get with me with no money?
Oh no, I don't want no 

No Scrub, No Scrub, No no, No Scrub, No, no no, No Scrub, No no

No, I don't want no scrub, a scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me
Hanging out the passenger side of his best friend's ride, trying to holler at me
No, I don't want no scrub, a scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me
Hanging out the passenger side of his best friend's ride, trying to holler at me

See, if you can't spacially expand my horizons
Then that leaves you in the class with scrubs, never risin'
I don't find it surprisin' that you don't have the g's
To please me and bounce from here to the coast of overseas
So let me give you something to think about 
Inundate your mind with intentions to turn you out 
Can't forget the focus of the picture in front of me
You as clear as DVD on a digital TV screen
Satisfy my appetite with something spectacular 
Check your vernacular and then I get back to ya
With diamond like precision insatiable is what I envision
Can't expect acquisition from your friend's Expedition
Mr. Big Will if you really wanna know 
Ask Chilli, could I be a silly ho?
Not really T-boz and all my senoritas
Is steppin on your Filas but you don't hear me enough

No, I don't want no scrub, a scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me
Hanging out the passenger side of his best friend's ride, trying to holler at me
No, I don't want no scrub, a scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me
Hanging out the passenger side of his best friend's ride, trying to holler at me



How to Play Musical Mondays

Musical Mondays at My So-Called Chaos

Musical Mondays is a weekly linky party where you can share songs or other music-related posts each Monday and link up with the linky.  Then you can enter the monthly giveaway and visit the other music posts linked up. To join us:
  • Write a blog post sharing music or something music-related.
  • Include the Musical Mondays button (code below) and/or a link back.
  • Link-up in the linky below. (NEW-It's going to be a month long linky, so feel free to add links through the month!)
  • Visit other Musical Monday links in the linky.
  • Enter the Giveaway below.




Enter to win a $10 Amazon Gift Card for Musical Mondays in July!

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