Showing posts with label Spotlight's On You. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Spotlight's On You. Show all posts

8.15.2015

Saturday Spotlight: Meet The Good Witch of the Midwest

Hello friends!  For today's Saturday Spotlight I have the brains behind the blog The Good Witch of the Midwest.  She's a small blogger who I've chosen to feature here on the blog in order to help promote her so she can grow and find new readers.  If you'd like to be featured here, please fill out this form.

But let's get on with the interview-I've asked her a few questions so you can get to know her better:

Saturday Spotlight: Meet The Good Witch of the Midwest

How did The Good Witch of the Midwest get started?
 I wanted a platform mainly for my love of polish. But I'm also a photographer and an avid (albeit, amateur chef) so the pictures and recipe tutorials just fell into place with all the polish and pretties. I love having somewhat of a digital diary to share my passions with others.

What inspires your love of nail polish? 
When I was in eighth grade, my favorite teacher was my sounding board for all things. I called him Sir, as a nod to my favorite movie of the time (and song) To Sir With Love. I asked him one day what guys really notice first in a girl. He said one of the first things he noticed about his wife was her nails. They were always well manicured and painted and always looked good. From then on I was hooked on polish, even though my dad wouldn't let me wear it. After my parents split I bought my first bottle of polish for $6... An Urban Decay polish that was navy blue with silver sparkles. My absolute favorite polish ever. Plus, I love that my polish can change with my moods. If I'm dark and stormy, my nails will be too. If I'm in a great mood, looking forward to having a great time, my nails are a conduit.

What are your favorite things to write about on your blog?
 My life. It may not be much to some, but to me, every life experience that I have could help someone else. I wrote about loosing our house, finding a new one and making it ours just so people wouldn't be so scared of the change themselves. Last night I blogged a series of recipes celebrating my mother-in-law that passed away hoping that someone might be able to honor their loved one the way I honored mine. I also love sharing my pictures. Whether they are just of flowers, or lightning (which I haven't had the chance to get this year *sad panda*), conceptual shots or just shots of my kiddos, I love to share and hopefully bring a smile to someones day.

Who inspires you in your daily life and why? 
 My children inspire my daily life. They're one of the main reasons I'm here on this earth. They keep me going when I don't want to walk another step and always keep me on my toes.

What are a few of your favorite posts you've posted on your blog?
Hmmm... The one where I made my famous Baklava. Ugh I can't wait for the holidays. My DIY River Song journal which I still use to this day... One of my favorites is a glimpse of what I do on a typical day, which took my readers to Neewollah, the nations oldest Halloween festival. And shoots of my beautiful town in full fall swing.. Ok... That's it. I have way too many favorites LOL

If you could give one piece of sound life advice, what would it be? 
My motto has always been: Let what happens, happen. It's easier said than done. I am a huge worrier. I can't help it, but I try to. I try my hardest to just breathe and let it be. If a situation is too heavy for you to handle at the moment, back up... Take a few steps back and breathe. Then come back at a different angle and attack it the best way you know how with a clear head.

Don't forget to visit The Good Witch of the Midwest and say hello!
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8.05.2015

Happy Blogiversary Kimi Who! + $100 Amazon Gift Card Giveaway

Happy Blogiversary Kimi Who! + $100 Amazon Gift Card Giveaway

Many of you probably know my good friend and sponsor Kimi from Kimi Who?.  This girl is fabulously geeky, an animal lover, and a great friend to have on your side-especially in the bloggy world.  I mean just look at this cute face (and that adorable cat!):

Kimi from Kimi Who

Well, Kimi is celebrating her 1 Year Blogiversary-HAPPY ONE YEAR OF BLOGGING KIMI! Which is super exciting, and she's doing 7 whole days of giveaways.  I was happy to get in on some of her giveaway action, but I am also happy to take a moment and introduce you to her here on the blog today.  I asked her a few anniversary-esque questions today.

What are some of the most important things you have learned in your one year of blogging?
I have learned to be less envious of other bloggers. I spent so many years trying to do as other bloggers did because they seemed to be doing well, probably making tons of money and surely they must be famous! This year, I learned how much it costs to actually maintain a blog and while there are plenty of bloggers out there making a steady flow of cash, I realize that most of us aren't. Blogging is truly a labor of love and somewhere down the road, you probably pour more money and time into it than you ever get back.

What was the best advice you have been given during the past year?
I wish I could remember where I first read this advice, but commenting regularly on other blogs has easily been a game changer for my blog. It's been really important to me to pass that advice on to other bloggers because it has worked so well for me.

What is one thing you wish you could have done differently on your blog?
I wish I had maintained a blogging schedule. It was easy to do in the beginning because my full time job had me working stable hours where I was possible for me to consistently post certain types of content. With the constant change in my scheduled days off, my blogging became inconsistent and it definitely cost me some traffic.

Where do you see (or hope to see) your blog in five years?
I have so many great ideas that I sincerely hope to see come to life. I know that I plan to do a lot more posts about blogging and I will eventually write an e-book and offer some courses for blogging and WordPress. It's all in the hopefully not as distant future as I think it is, but definitely part of a 5 year plan!

What do you expect the next year to bring to your blog?
I suspect that in the next year, there will be a lot of posts related to buying a home and decorating it because that's where our lives will be. Hopefully that means some great tips, tricks and money saving ideas.

What is your favorite post you wrote during that year, and why?
Narrowing down 185 blog posts over the last year is definitely a challenge! I think we all lose sight of what blogging is at some point. It's putting yourself out there and really being honest about who you are. I have always wanted my blog to inspire and to touch the lives of my readers and I think that's why my post about My Tattoo and the Serious Reason Behind It is one of my favorites.

 It's a very raw and very real post where I open up and share one of the darkest corners of my life. It's something I don't do too often - not even outside of my blog with friends and loved ones. Sharing that post has been a pretty big deal for me and every time I share it, I feel a little more empowered.

If you could offer one tip for a blogger just starting out, what would it be?
Be authentic. It's tempting to try to do everything like everyone else... but you really need to find your own voice and let it shine.

So as I said above, Kimi has SEVEN days of giveaways.  You can enter day 1-a $100 Amazon Gift Card below, but make sure you run over to Kimi Who for the rest of the days.  So far you can enter to win an art print from Liana Kangas, a Body Naturals bath and body set, and a Funko Princess Cadence.  Plus, make sure to check back for the rest of the seven giveaways.  All end on the 15th!  You can fill out her blogiversary questionaire HERE!


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7.18.2015

Saturday Spotlight: Meet Colleen of The Lunchbox Diaries-The Funniest Blog

Saturday Spotlight: Meet Colleen of The Lunchbox Diaries

Today I want to take a moment to introduce you to Colleen, who is the brilliant and hilarious blogger behind the blog The Lunchbox Diaries. I was introduced to Colleen and her blog this year when she won the Funniest Blog award in my 2015 Best of Blog Awards.  Let me tell you, I love her blog now-I'm so glad someone nominated her and that lots of people voted for her, because she's not only funny, but real.

You know I love when a blogger is real with me.  Especially in posts like this one: Complaining vs. Bragging vs. Real Talk (?!)

What got you started blogging over at The Lunchbox Diaries? 
I was introduced to the world of blogging in 2009 when a friend of mine started her own blog. I read several blogs religiously until I finally thought, "You know what? I could totally do this." I'd been writing for myself (in journals and such) since I was 8-years-old, but was always too scared to share it with anyone. It was such a liberating leap of faith to start The Lunchbox Diaries. I can't adequately express my genuine shock that people actually read (and like!) it.

How did you meet your husband? 
I met Cory during my first weekend at college! I wish it was a romantic tale, but we were at the same frat party, and I just knew instantly that I had to meet him. When I saw him walk in, I even said to my roommate, "I'm going to marry that guy." She thought it was the two beers talking, but I was serious!

Saturday Spotlight: Meet Colleen of The Lunchbox Diaries-The Funniest Blog

You have a Great Dane and a new baby, how is that treating you? 
Oh my goodness, my Great Dane, Penny is such a diva. I was concerned that she'd hate the baby because he'd naturally be an attention-stealer, but I she's actually been great! They're not BFFs by any stretch of the imagination, but she definitely knows that he's delicate and she treats him well. Jack, on the other hand, isn't fazed one bit by her!

What is your favorite cocktail and why?
My favorite cocktail is a free cocktail ;) But vodka is my liquor-of-choice, and I normally mix it with a fruit juice and a splash of Sprite or sparkling water, just to give it a nice fizz. I've actually been really into red wine recently, which is odd because I hated it before I got pregnant!

You have a Masters of Education, what were you doing for work? 
I was in management for an Employee Assistance Program. (Most people have no idea what an EAP is, yet most working adults have access to one! An EAP is a free, confidential, mental health benefit that's provided to the employees by the employer. So, if you've ever been interested in going to counseling, but don't want to pay for it or don't know where to know go, just ask your HR person about your EAP benefits!) I was doing a lot of counseling and public speaking (think: train the trainers type stuff.) Before that, I was working in a jail with the male inmates. Oh, the stories I've heard!


You recently left your job to be a full-time mom to your son Jack, how's that going? 
It's been great, but it's honestly the toughest job I've ever had. I know I'm doing exactly what's right for my family and me, but I'd by lying if I said it was a cake walk.

Do you think you'll go back to your work when Jack is a little older?
I think so! I love working, but I love working for myself. That's why staying at home and focusing on blogging and freelancing (and a new side gig that I can't wait to reveal!) is great for me. I can make my own schedule, do what I'm passionate about, and still make money.

If you won the lottery tomorrow, what would you do first? 
Oh my gosh, if I won the lottery, I love to say I'd splurge on something first, but knowing me, I'd invest it and put it into savings. I'm so boring! But I would love to buy my parents a house so they could live near me! I think I'd also pay an interior decorator to come style our home, because I'm so bad at that.

If you could offer one piece of advice for the ladies out there reading, what would it be? 
My life motto is "always be a first rate version of yourself, instead of a second rate version of someone else." (Thank you, Judy Garland.) So often, we ladies try to be someone we're not; and the most liberating thing I've ever done is allowing myself to be me. It sounds so cliche, but I swear to you, it's the best to allow yourself to feel completely comfortable with who you are.

10. If you could offer one piece of advice to a new blogger, what would it be? 
Take your time finding your own voice. It's great to emulate someone when you're just starting out, but you won't get noticed until you start being yourself. Circle back to my life motto quote above ;)


Thanks Colleen! I'm so glad to be reading your blog!
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7.07.2015

Meet Heather of The Nerdy Fox & Cheaha Soaps + Enter to Win a $25 Etsy Gift Card

Meet Heather of The Nerdy Fox & Cheaha Soaps + Enter to Win a $25 Etsy Gift Card

One of my favorite new-ish blogs I've found is this lovely lady, Heather from The Nerdy Fox & Cheaha Soaps. She's a geek girl, who is also from Utah, but lives in Alabama now.  Too bad we didn't connect when we were practically neighbors! Anyway, I've loved getting to know her better, so today I want you to get to know her better!  I interviewed her, and here's what she had to say:

How did you get started blogging at The Nerdy Fox?
I’ve blogged on and off for years. The Nerdy Fox has always been something I’ve wanted to do and never gotten around to doing. You don’t see a lot of geeky blogs and less that are kind of all-encompassing. The hardest part was thinking of a name that wasn’t already taken. My bestie was actually the one that was like, “Why not something like, The Nerdy Fox?” and that’s what stuck and has been.

How did Cheaha soaps get started?
My mom has been making soap for oodles of years. Like, 20 + years. It’s something she did while I was growing up and as soon as we moved closer to each other, we decided to get a business going.

Cheaha Soaps


What first inspired your love of geek culture?
I’ve always been a gamer, I grew up with them. I remember waking up early and playing Yoshi’s Island and Fester’s Quest. It’s always been a part of my life. I’ve never not had geeky interests. It’s funny because my parents are particularly geeky. My dad is a hardcore outdoorsman and my mom was always really crafty. She was always reading, though. I think that might have contributed to it. She read a book a day and I remember being so impressed and wanting to be able to do that. My parents were always very supportive and wanted me to be the person I wanted to be. I didn’t really realize I was a geek until Junior High when I started seeing Lord of the Rings a ridiculous amount of times in theaters! That’s what really sealed the deal. I had these two friends, Sam and Chelsea, and we went every chance we got. When we weren’t watching the movies, we were in the LotR chat rooms. Chelsea’s mom was super cool, she started a Tolkien discussion group at the bookstore. She taught everyone elvish and we had a pretty big group of people talking about it. Sam and Chelsea were so cool, they were into Sailor Moon and read these really awesome books. Without those two, I don’t know if I’d be as geeky as I am today.

What are your top three favorite fandoms?
Oh man, I can only pick three? This is rough. Tolkien, Doctor Who, Star Wars……. And Star Trek. I know. I can’t pick only three. Tolkien because the Middle Earth universe is just SO cool. Doctor Who is a more recent obsession, like within the last couple of years. I am a fan of Nine. Crazy, I know. I love the others, but Nine is my doctor. Star Wars because who doesn’t love light sabers and the Jedi?? Star Trek has always been amazing. I recently watched The Next Generation from beginning to end and let me tell you, I thought I had watched every episode. Nope, there were definitely episodes I had never seen or forgotten.

Heather form The Nerdy Fox posing with Chewbacca at ComicCon

Have you ever been to a Comic or other nerdy convention? If so, tell us about it.
I worked at a booth for the first Salt Lake Comic Con. It was amazing. I worked it with my friend Anne, she was working for a local artist that makes tshirts. It was a crazy, whirlwind experience but we had so much fun. We were totally dead by the end of it. I met Manu Bennett and he hugged me. I met Peter Mayhew and I totally almost cried. I met so many awesome people at that one. I went to the Fan X right before I left Utah, the one with Patrick Stewart, and it was a totally different experience. It was a lot of fun, I saw a lot of people. I saw Patrick Stewart and the guard said, “You look like you’re going to cry!” which was true and kind of embarrassing. I missed the Comic Con here a couple months back. I had no idea there was one. I’m planning on attending next year.

Do you cosplay? If so, what is your favorite thing to cosplay as? Any new costumes in the works?
I love to cosplay. I love making costumes. I have been making costumes with my bestie for years. It started out as simple things… Zombie Ballerina and Pikachu and has gradually evolved into bigger things. My first real cosplay was dressing up for Lord of the Rings midnight premieres. My most recent one was Sonic and Tails. I was Tails. It was a lot of fun. My favorite cosplay was Poison Ivy – that’s one that I’d like to remake one of these days. My next cosplay is going to be a Harley Quinn cosplay. I’m pretty excited about it. I have been planning it for months. I just need to actually start making it at this point. I’m sure it’ll be on my blog soon!

Heather from the Nerdy Fox cosplaying as Pikachew with some Storm Troopers

What made you move from Utah to the south?
The question that never gets old. The short and sweet version is that I moved to be closer to my parents who were stationed here. The real version is that I was (technically, still am) going through a messy divorce and couldn’t stand to be in a state that brought me so many sad memories any longer. I had always said I would want to move closer to my parents when they got back from Germany and this was the perfect opportunity. I didn’t realize it was going to be Alabama but here I am.

Is there anything you miss about your home state?
I miss Utah every single day. The list of things I miss is endless but off the top of my head: Mountains, a grid system, visible street signs, Beans & Brew, Juice N Java, Coffee Pod, Café Rio, Zupas, parks with shade, sidewalks, and snow. Now, because I know someone is going to ask, no we really don’t have sidewalks. The only places I’ve seen them are places like strip malls. The neighborhoods don’t have them. It’s really the strangest thing to me.

Is there anything cool and exciting you love about your new state?
Alabama is surreally green. There is an abnormal amount of trees. I mean, an abnormal amount. It’s beautiful. Coming from a place like Salt Lake where you can see across the valley and have kind of a sense of direction, it is really … surreal, there isn’t another word for it, to live in a place where you really are just surrounded by trees. All the time.

If you could offer one piece of advice to any other geek girl, what would it be?
Embrace geek culture. Don’t hide it and don’t downplay it.

If you could offer one piece of advice to a new Etsy shop owner, what would it be? 
Patience. It’s not going to get big overnight. Keep making high quality items and it’ll eventually take off.

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6.28.2015

The Weekly Round-Up: Check Out This Real Talk

What We Can Learn from Eating Like the French

"One thing I’ve noticed about the French that ties into food culture is the fact that there are far fewer obese people in France than there are in the US. That’s not to say there are no overweight people because there are a bunch of very unfit, heavy folks walking around. But truly obsese? I can count them on one hand and I’ve lived here over 3 years… France has the lowest obesity rates in Europe. To give you exact figures, 38.5% of men and 26% of women in France are considered overweight (it’s about double that in the US). And in the US, nearly 35% of adults are obese. Yikes!"

♥ Diane from Oui in France wrote a great piece on What We Can Learn from Eating Like the French, and there's a lot of good information in there.  I really like how she's put this post together with actual facts and sources, and lots of great tips to help us eat better too.  Goodness knows I'm working on eating better!

Maybe She's Born With It, Maybe It's an Instagram Filter


"Social media gives everyone the perfect opportunity to let the world view your life — but only the pretty parts. And I think that is such bull shit. Sure, my life is good, and yours probably is, too, but so what? I have no interest in having a pissing contest with the entire world about the pretty parts."

♥ Colleen from Lunchbox Diaries got with the real talk in her post titled Complaining vs. Bragging vs. Real Talk (?!) and I couldn't agree more!  I don't want to read about how everything is hunky dory with you all the time-because NO ONE is happy and perfect 24/7.  Sometimes I want you to bare your soul to me and get real.  That's how we connect.

Lyrics by Till Linderman

"I don't think there's a more cheesy and sweet romantic line than "your heart is a diamond" but that's echoed immediately by the less glamorous reality of diamonds--this heart is a diamond because it was crushed together by 'pressure'. The lyrics acknowledge the darker side of the person that he loves, and then go on to say "I will wait and stay"."

♥ Alex from Haifisch linked up a post for Musical Mondays about a song that's touching her, and then she got very real with us about how she's getting help for her PTSD.  I'm proud of her, and I love when song lyrics just reach in side and bond with some part of you, even when that part is a hard part sometimes, it's cathartic.

Photos of textbooks in a Campus book store.

"I am notoriously bad at studying. As much as I try, I never seem to be able to do it successfully. I can get myself all prepared to study, and spend two hours working without actually getting anything done. Three years of college down and I've still not figured out the best method for myself to retain information. It all depends on the class, and it feels like my grades are often actually pre-determined by some sort of big scary beast that I have no control over."

♥ Jess from Writing in Red Lipstick is offering us Study Tips from Someone Who Has Never Successfully Studied Before, and I'm right there with her.  At least she's honest, and these sarcastic study tips are hilariously true.

How to Recognize a Toxic Friendship

"The thing is, recognizing and then respectfully terminating toxic friendships is an important step in achieving your goals. Getting rid of toxic friends says a lot about how much you respect yourself and your dreams – as does letting toxic friends stick around."

♥ Torie from Call It Adventure wrote a really great post about How to Recognize a Toxic Friendship, and what to do about it.  I love Torie's posts, and this one is so so so true.  I've been there before, it's just something that happens and sometimes you just have to move forward without what may ultimately (and unknowingly) be dead weight.


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6.27.2015

Saturday Spotlight: The Truth About Pink Tax + a Giveaway from Kimi Who

The Truth About Pink Tax, comparing health products and a giveaway!


I've been watching the way that I spend my money as I am looking to change some of my negative spending habits. One of my largest expenditures each month is health and beauty products - shampoo, deodorant, face wash, razors, etc. I've heard a lot about the so-called "Pink Tax" - the idea that women are willing to spend extra on products that are pink, are "made for women", or seem more cutesy for lack of better term. As much as I like pink, I like having extra money much more and so I decided to investigate and see if I could walk away from the store with a few extra dollars in hand.


I've read several articles pertaining to the Pink Tax and decided to try researching those specific items and comparing their prices for myself. I chose to compare Target's prices since that's where I purchase the majority of my items. I went into this whole blog post with the thought in mind that I was going to raise hell about the cost difference and throw some feminist fit or something. But guess what? I found that the supposedly higher cost of pink is a myth...

 Let's compare these two similar Degree brand deodorants...

Women's

Degree Dry Protection Shower Clean Invisible Solid Deodorant 2.6 oz, Twin Pack

Degree Dry Protection Shower Clean Invisible Solid Deodorant

Health Concern: Body Odor
For Use On: Under Arm
Scent: Fresh
Product Form: Solid
Capacity (volume): 2.6 Oz.
Men's

Degree Men Dry Protection Extreme Blast Antiperspirant & Deodorant 2.7 oz, Twin Pack

Degree Men Dry Protection Extreme Blast Antiperspirant & Deodorant

Health Concern: Body Odor
For Use On: Under Arm
Scent: Fresh
Product Form: Solid
Capacity (volume): 2.7 Oz.

According to Target.com both of these products cost $3.99 + tax. Now, to be fair... the women's deodorant contains 2.6 ounces VS that 2.7 ounces in the men's. But let's be realistic here: How often do you actually get everything out of a deodorant container? I doubt that .1 is really going to make a difference.

 In my search, I noticed that there aren't very many deodorant brands that are marketed and/or designed for both genders. Brands like Secret cater to women whereas Old Spice caters towards men. The idea behind those brands is that Secret often comes in floral, "feminine scents" while Old Spice produces stronger, musky "masculine scents". So to be fair, it's hard to compare prices when you start comparing completely different brands.

 In this case, I don't really see a Pink Tax. I don't feel like I am paying more money for the "preferred" or "feminine scented" deodorant. But let's try comparing some razors - something that legitimately comes in pink or otherwise more girly colors.

Women's

RazorVenus
Gillette® Venus Sensitive Sensible Disposable Razor Package Quantity: 1
Number of Pieces: 1
Includes: Razor
For Use On: Whole Body
For Hair Type: All Hair Types
Battery: no battery used
Care and Cleaning: Rinse with Water
Men's

RazorMach
Gillette Mach3 Sensitive Disposable Razor Package Quantity: 1
Number of Pieces: 1
Includes: Razor
For Use On: Whole Body
For Hair Type: All Hair Types
Battery: no battery used
Care and Cleaning: Rinse with Water

These are similar, disposable razors made by the same company, Gillette. The Venus and the Mach series both claim to be "sensitive and sensible", have the same number of blades, are for all hair types and useful on all parts of the body. Besides color and some otherwise aesthetic differences, they are the same razor. Even the packaging is similar!

 Each razor is listed on Target.com for $3.99 + tax - no pink tax here.
I Don't Feel Cheated.
Do you feel like you are paying more for cute products? I honestly thought that I was - so many people swear by this pink tax. I'm sure I could find some discrepancy somewhere if I tried hard enough, but the numbers don't lie. When you make legitimate comparisons and only put similar products against similar products made by the same company, the pink tax is a myth.

 Is this always the case? I doubt so many women would be in an uproar about this if there weren't some real cases out there. I have seen the pictures where price comparisons have been done in the past and see the noticeable price inflation on women's items for myself. But in my research, I just don't see it (and remember, I went into this post expecting to find it).  
Hooray, Giveaway!
Well, since there's no price difference, I will send one lucky winner a package of their very own pink razors! The giveaway below is for U.S. readers only (sorry, I am not sending sharp things internationally haha).



6.21.2015

The Weekly Round-Up: Check Out These Brave Ladies

Hello readers!  If you're new here, or just new to The Weekly Round-Up, let me introduce you.  The Weekly Round-Up is a weekly linky party hosted each Sunday by myself and Aubrey of High-Heeled Love where we share posts from other bloggers.  Why?  Well it's a great time to take the focus off ourselves and let the light shine on some other fantastic bloggers and writers out there.   Sometimes when we blog, we forget that it's not all about us.  I mean, we're here telling our own stories, so it's easy to be very self-oriented, but it's also great to stop once in a while and share some of our favorites.  

So, take a moment and check out these suggestions I have for you to read.  Who knows?  You might not only find a great post that resonates with you, but you might find a new blog to follow, or a new bloggy friend.  You can never have enough good friends.  

This week I've decided to focus on bravery.  Each post before is brave in one way or another, and I applaud them for it!

Sea Salt Secrets: The Wander Years

"So if any of my friends are craving to travel but are holding back because of the price- just know that if you travel smart, you can spend less abroad than you do at home with your every day routine. So go out, live your dreams and be legendary."


♥ Shane from Sea Salt Secrets writes about how these are our Wander Years. A great motivator to get out there and travel.  Life is too short to stay in one place and be stagnant with our lives-go, do, see, and have memories!  Be brave! 

A Peek at Karen's World: I'm Trying to Be Brave. I Really Am.

"But I’m making a commitment that this week I am going to be brave. I’m going to challenge myself to try something new. This month I made a goal to go back to yoga. Well, I’m going to do that this week. Because the sooner I go once, the sooner I can go again."

♥ Karen from A Peek at Karen's World says she's trying to be brave and make changes in her life.  Honestly, I think she IS brave.  It's brave just to write this post and talk about your own insecurities.  You can do it Karen!  We both can.

Sincerely, Bugs: The Proposal

"In the middle was a leather ring box that said “Love is for children.” I laughed out loud. He and I are constantly calling each other dumb for falling in love, or stating the famous Black Widow line, “love is for children,” in response to “I love you.” It’s an inside Avenger’s joke and I was really, really happy that he brought who we are into the proposal. I should have known he would anyway."

♥ Allie from Sincerely, Bugs has such a sweet proposal story!  I love how her boyfriend fiance made it personal too, and I especially love that their little bit of personal is nerdy.  Geeks unite!  Congrats Allie!  It's brave to move forward with heart.

Anna in Wonderland: Being Your Authentic Self

"But, the reason Ingrid's video had so much of an impact on me was because like Ingrid, for a long time I felt as though my authentic self had to be hidden, like there was something wrong with it. Like Ingrid, I had a role carved out for me before I was even born and it takes a lot of guts to live your real life. Sometimes people will be hurt along the way if you live your life honestly, but you have to ask yourself, is it worth it for you to hurt people temporarily (most people will come around to who you are in time) or continue hurting yourself (and possible even other people along the way) forever just to protect them?"

♥ Anna from Anna in Wonderland digs deep and tells us why she was so moved by Ingrid Nilson's coming out video.  It's so brave to be able to share your deepest and most real stories, and I love that she shared it with us.

Painting Bliss: Gut Insticts

"It's in the giving in, that turns out to be the greatest reward. There is something of a relief in admitting defeat and knowing you can put it away as you move on to something better and more fulfilling. I find it amusing how one will hold onto the impending disappointment, as if holding on will make it any better. It won't. Don't fool yourself. The sooner you give in to the changes that need making, the better."

♥ Ashlee of Painting Bliss wrote about how difficult it is when you don't feel like your art is going right, but how you should follow your gut instincts and move on if needs be.  Man, I think this can all be related to other things in life too, can't it?

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6.20.2015

Saturday Spotlight: The Importance of Planning by Emilie Lima Burke

Wake up. Pee. Brush teeth. Get dressed. Head to gym. Spin. Come home. Shower. Then what?

It is true for most people that we have a routine. Every (week)day consists of a pattern of things we have to do. If you’re anything like me, though, it’s the small details that get you caught. I hate when I have to get to the post office, dry cleaners, or bank, and I can’t seem to remember it- until after they’re closed, of course.

For this reason, I’ve joined the community of men and women who swear by their planners. I first started using a planner meticulously in my sophomore year of high school. My then-PE teacher required us to write our assignments down every day for a the second quarter as a way to earn extra credit. Being the Type A student I am (I mean, you don’t get to Princeton without it), despite the fact that I didn’t need extra credit, I decided to go for it.

You see, up to this point I did not write down my assignments because I could keep it all in my head. I was 15 years old. I had school, sports practice, and a fast food job. In the grand scheme, it wasn’t that much on my plate.

Despite not having much on my plate, every once in a while, things still fell through the cracks. I did sometimes miss an assignment or forget to study for a quiz. I’d remember a shift that I had offered to cover at work, but I didn’t remember to bring my uniform to school. It wasn’t all that time, but it was often enough. When Ms. Soltis, then, opened up this challenge, I was excited to get on board.

Just like that, things changed. I stopped forgetting things. This is important to note: Some things still didn’t get done. It wasn’t, though, because I didn’t remember to do them. It was because I was too busy or something came up. Things weren’t falling through the cracks. I was able to plan for them now.

Here I am, over six years later, still swearing by a planner.

The thing with planning, though, is that there is no right way to do it. Over the years, I’ve tried so many different planners. I’ve used a Bloom Planner, a Lilly Pulitzer Planner in multiple sizes (examples here), the free ones that show up at your door, and lots others along the way. There is only one, though, that I’ve felt has given me the freedom and flexibility to accommodate all the different parts of my life. That is my beautiful Erin Condren Life Planner which you can see below.




What makes planners really unique is the way they give you the power to organize your life. The EC Planner, as you can see from the picture below, gives you the power to categorize your life into three boxes. The planner comes organized in Morning, Day, and Night. Those, though, are not my needs. Instead, I customize it, based on my needs for that day or week. Usually, I use To-Do, Blog, and Work, which I use to keep track of both school stuff and work stuff.



You’ll notice that here I’ve added some embellishments to my ECLP, like the hedgehog paper clip, and washi tape in the pages. It’s just a little flair that makes it more exciting for me to plan. This gives me the opportunity to be both creative and organized in the same location!

My planner has become a place for me to not only be organized but push myself to be creative on a regular basis. For example, if I make a page design that I don’t love, I only have to put up with it for a week. Then it’s on to the next one!



Here are some of my favorite planning guidelines to help you be the best planner you can be:

  1. You are never wrong. Your way of planning is your way of planning. We can always try to be better, but that does not mean you were wrong. 
  2. Make it suit your needs- don’t try to fit your planning style into theirs.
  3. There are tons of etsy shops that make planner stickers that can help you truly make your planner your own. Do it. Forreal. Find and customize however works best for you!
  4. Plan every week at the same time. Maybe you’re a Sunday night planner. Maybe you’re a Monday-gal. Whatever the case, find a day and time that works for you and stick to it every week. Rome was not built in a day.
  5. It should be something you want to do. Don’t do it because you have to. Planning should be helping you. If it’s not you might want to reevaluate your system.
  6. Sometimes you fall of the horse. It’s okay to brush it off and get back on. It’s not just okay- it’s expected. Sometimes you’ll miss a week. That’s why there’s always next week.
It seems to me like a lot of those tips could also apply to life… hmm.


This post, The Importance of Planning, is written by Emilie from EmilieLimaBurke.com, where she blogs about her transition from college into the real world. Her blog topics include crafting, saving money, and going on new adventures.

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5.20.2015

Giveaway: Meet Jenny & Enter to win a Gorgeous Bracelet!

Originally I tried to post this a little while ago while I was in Canada, but something went wonky and the giveaway never populated.  SO, we're trying it again. Enter to win this! 

Giveaway: Meet Jenny and Enter to Win a Boho Beaded Wrap Bracelet

You guys.  Hole in Her Stockings Designs is basically famous now.  I mean, her beautiful beaded bracelets were featured in the GBK MTV Movie Awards Gift Lounge and worn by the stars, plus they were featured on the Elvis Duran Morning Show!  So believe me, I feel super lucky to have this talented girl and her awesome jewelry as a regular sponsor, and here for an interview today with an awesome giveaway!

Jennifer from Hole in Her Stocking Designs

When you're not creating, what kind of things do you do in your free time? 
I love spending time with my family, writing, singing karaoke and having Netflix binges

When you were a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up? Does this line up with it? 
When I was really young I wanted to be a ballerina. I do remember from a young age always wanting to own my own "store" and I am actually at a point where that may be possible in the not too distant future.

How did Hole in Her Stocking Designs get started? 
I opened up an Etsy shop as a hobby several years ago. Never took it too seriously until the last year or so and things and all of a sudden been growing by leaps and bounds.

Multi Layer Western Boho Wrap BraceletPurple Midnight Boho Wrap Bracelet

What inspires your lovely creations? 
Although it's quite trendy now, I always had a bohemian style. I feel many of my pieces give that vibe. Of course, I'll keep up with trends but I feel the boho undertone is always there.

You recently had your jewelry featured on the Elvis Duran Morning Show, can you tell us about that experience? 
Ahhh!! Still feel like I'm dreaming. A few of the girls on the show wear my bracelets and one day I got an email from Carla Marie saying she was going to feature me the following morning. She emailed me a little interview and that was that. When I heard them talking about me on the radio the next morning I was literally jumping up and down.

You also recently had your designs included in the GBK 2015 MTV Movie Awards Gift Lounge, how did that go? Are there famous people wearing your jewelry now?
It was exciting. I am part of an amazing group called The Artisan Group who gave me this opportunity and the celebrities adore all the hand made items and are really supportive of all the artisans. Some celebrities got the bags at the event and some HUGE names are getting bags sent to them but I'm not allowed to release those names at this time. But I do have photos of Paige Hurd from "Hawaii Five-0" wearing one of my bracelets and Dylan Gelula from "Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt" checking out a bracelet.

Beaded Boho Wrap Bracelet

What are some of your favorite creations you have made so far? 
Oh jeez. I really love everything I make but I am definitely loving corals, turquoises and mint for the spring/summer. And I am always a fan of blues and purples. It's funny, with all the creating I do I barely make anything for myself. Have to change that. Although I did need to make one of these for myself.

What does your work space look like? 
Ha!! It looks like a mini tornado went across my kitchen table. I wish I could be one of those bloggers or shop owners who Instagrams their adorable and clean work space but so not me. I'm a mess. Although, with things getting so busy it is becoming a necessity to become organized so maybe it can still be me one day.

What kind of things have you done to make your brand so successful? 
Worked really hard. Hard work does truly pay off. I work long hours not just creating and fulfilling orders but spending time connecting with other shop owners, bloggers, social media influencers, etc to market my brand. Marketing is perhaps the most vital thing is having a successful business.


What kind of advice would you give someone who wants to start a business like this?
Make a great product, know your target audience and get your name out there. It may mean sending out products for free or buying sponsorships on blogs but these are the necessities in getting your name out there. You could have the greatest product but if nobody knows about it you won't have any sales. We are lucky to live in the age of social media, use it to your advantage.

How do you work your business into your daily life along with everything else you do?
This is a rough one for me. I feel like I am always working. I'm trying to make a conscious effort to set "business hours" so I can truly be present when spending time with my family. Still working towards getting some balance.



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Jenny is giving one lucky winner in the USA her popular White Beaded Silver Bar Beaded Wrap Bracelet!  (It's the one the stars are rocking in THIS POST)  Giveaway ends 5/20/2015 at 12AM. Entering below agrees to all T&C in the Rafflecopter.





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